Mac and Cheese That Actually Deserves the Hype
To make mac and cheese, cook elbow macaroni, make a roux with butter and flour, whisk in warm milk to build a béchamel, melt in sharp cheddar and Gruyère, combine with pasta, and bake at 375°F for 25 minutes until bubbly and golden. The whole process takes about 50 minutes.
I brought mac and cheese to my aunt's Fourth of July cookout in 2019 and watched a grown man take one bite, set his paper plate down on the folding table, and walk away to get a hot dog instead. That man was my uncle. That mac and cheese came from a box. I have not made that mistake since, and I am telling you this story so you understand the level of personal accountability that went into developing this homemade mac and cheese recipe.
The problem with most creamy mac and cheese recipes is that people skip the roux like it's optional, like a béchamel is just a suggestion from France that we don't have to take seriously. I skipped it for years. I melted Velveeta directly into cooked pasta and called it dinner, which worked fine until I started having opinions about myself. This baked mac and cheese builds a real sauce —? butter, flour, warm whole milk —? and it holds together like something that has its life sorted out.
Make this for Thanksgiving, for a Tuesday when you need a reason to keep going, or for any gathering where you want someone to ask you for the recipe and then get a little upset when you actually tell them how simple it is. I serve it with a spoon the size of a small shovel. That part is non-negotiable.